Archive for March, 2013

I was sick this passed week. I picked up a common cold that was going around my place of employment. It wasn’t the flu but it was about as bad (I suppose) as a common cold gets – whole body aching. I had spent the last 2-3 days at a distance from my family since I didn’t want them to catch it. So, I was feeling a bit lonely and perhaps a bit isolated.

Then, my son, Matthew, created a “Get Well Card” for me:

Dad, I Love You

“Dad, I love you. And you know that I would do anything for you.”

This really touched my heart. My son not only took the time to make me a custom “Get Well Card,” but he also loves me so much that he would do anything for me. Wow!

So, I started thinking… Isn’t this what God says to me? “Son, I love you. And you know that I would do anything for you.” In fact, He did do anything for me. He took my sin upon Himself and hung on a tree and died. And rose again so that I might live, both now and forevermore with Him in heaven.

“Since he did not spare even his own Son but gave him up for us all, won’t he also give us everything else? Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? No one—for God himself has given us right standing with himself. 34 Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and he is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us.” — Romans 8:32-34 NLT

But what if we, as people who have grown up in church, have been desensitized to the message of the Cross? What then? What if the walls that we have erected have not only protected us from harm but have also kept us from giving and receiving love as we should? What if life’s pains, obstacles, and addictions have somehow numbed us to fully receiving God’s love?

Is there still hope for us?

I submit to you that there is still hope for us.

Dear Father God,

We come to you in the name of Jesus, the only way that we can come to you. Thank you for loving us so much. So, much that you would send your only son to die for us so that we could have our relationship and friendship with you restored.

We confess that this life and world have blinded us to your great love for us. We pray right now that your Holy Spirit would give us a fresh revelation of your love for us. We pray that all walls keeping your love out would be broken down. We pray that your love for us would be so real that it would transform us. That it would change our very lives and reveal the new creations that we already are.

In Jesus’ mighty, matchless name we pray,



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In part 1 of this topic, we talked about how WordPress.com is a viable option for folks who want a blog or website that is professional looking, yet easy enough to build and maintain themselves.

However, a WordPress.com site does have it’s limitations. For example, additional plugins and widgets are not supported. So, if you want to add, say drop caps to your blog, you cannot do this with a WordPress.com blog.

You can purchase a premium theme or customize the design of your current theme for a price. However, because of how the WordPress.com platform works, you are still limited in what you can do.


Enter WordPress.org. With WordPress.org, the software is free but you have to find a web host to install it on. Thus, the initial setup is a little more complicated than a WordPress.com site and the web hosting will cost you a little money, but the flexibility that you get is priceless.

You now have the ability to load any of the numerous WordPress plugins (including widgets) that are available and you have free access to many fully customizable themes that are not available on WordPress.com. And Google Analytics is fully supported. You can even monetize your site if you like.

Michael Hyatt has an article called, “How to Launch a Self-Hosted WordPress Blog in 20 Minutes or Less.” Both he and WordPress.org recommends Bluehost.com to host your site.

I recently migrated from a WordPress.com site to a WordPress.org self-hosted site. I followed Michael’s instructions linked above and was able to get the WordPress.org software installed in a short period of time! It was literally a one-click install and I never had to touch a server’s desktop!

Migrating my blog posts over to my new site was as easy as clicking Tools > Export > Download Export File on my old site’s admin page, installing the WordPress Importer plugin on my new site, and then clicking Tools > Import > WordPress on my new site’s admin page.

Migrating my email subscribers was straightforward as well. First, I had to make sure that Jetpack was installed on my new site, which is also a one-click install.  Next, I had to contact WordPress.com support and ask them to migrate my email subscribers over from my old site to my new site. I also posted a request in the WordPress.com forums. I think the post in the forums sped up the process.

I chose the Suffusion theme. It is touted as “the Best, Most Versatile and Totally Free WordPress Theme,” and I would tend to agree. The number of options that this theme allows is quite impressive, if not overwhelming at first. Getting your theme (site) to look the way that you want it to is perhaps the most challenging part of the process.

The last step that I had to take was to edit my website’s DNS nameservers. I simply logged into my old WordPress.com site’s admin page, selected Store > Domains, and under “Domain Administration” selected “Make changes to DNS.” I then set a new password and clicked “Save password.” Next, I copied my customer number to my PC’s clipboard and clicked “Manage Your Domains.”

It was here that I changed my nameservers to the following:



After 24-48 hours, all website requests for my domain garyleemillner.com were directed to my new site over at bluehost.com

All-in-all, the WordPress.com to WordPress.org migration went very smoothly.

I would love to hear from you. Have you always wanted a website but have been afraid of taking the leap? Do you have a website that is a pain to update or manage? Do you have website hosting horror stories?

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Today’s the BIG day. It’s 03-05-2013 and the official release day of our book, Slaying Life’s Dragons and Beasts – A Practical, Biblical Guide to Overcoming Life’s Pains, Obstacles, and Addictions.

Official Release of Slaying Life's Dragons and Beasts

I want to say a BIG “thank you” to everyone who has helped to make this day possible. My prayer is that God would use this book to help many people overcome the pains, obstacles, and addictions that have held them in bondage for so long.

May we all find the true freedom that can only be found in Christ.

Ordering locations


1. http://www.tatepublishing.com/bookstore/book.php?w=978-1-62024-672-6

2. http://www.amazon.com/Slaying-Lifes-Dragons-Beasts-Millner/dp/1620246724

3. http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/slaying-lifes-dragons-and-beasts-gary-lee-millner/1114173566


1. http://www.tatepublishing.com/bookstore/book.php?w=978-1-62024-672-6

2. http://www.amazon.com/Slaying-Lifes-Dragons-Beasts-ebook/dp/B00AWU9YFU/ref=tmm_kin_title_0

3. http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/slaying-lifes-dragons-and-beasts-gary-lee-millner/1114173566

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We just upgraded our website / blog to a self-hosted WordPress site!

Current WordPress.com followers will only see new posts in the Reader. They will not receive email updates unless they subscribe to receive those on our new site.

If you can see this message, then you are a WordPress.com follower. 

If you would like to continue to receive email updates, then please head on over to our new site, garyleemillner.com, and sign up (the website URL is the same).

Thank you for following this site and we look forward to interacting with you in the future.

May God Richly Bless You,

Gary L. Millner

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